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I refuse to follow Charlie Sheen on Twitter. Not because I don’t enjoy his mania just as much as the other three million followers he garnered this month. In fact, I think I enjoy his hubris-filled Hamlet rendition more than most because I also work in television. I have felt beat up by a producer, here and there, throughout my career and a studio, too, on occasion. And although I have fantasized about denouncing them and calling everyone I’ve ever worked with a troll, in real life I’ve acted more like a battered wife than a batterer.

Not that I’m at all sure Charlie was actually abused by his shows creator though. The rumor around Hollywoodland is that every other cast member on 2.5 Men was treated like a member of group home — that had to be cared for just well-enough that the outside world couldn’t see their pain, while Charlie was treated like a deity.

None of which is why I’m abstaining from Charlie’s tweets. It’s because one of my earliest television jobs was co-hosting Loveline on MTV. Giving advice to over-sexed and under-boundaried teenagers for 200 episodes has left me thinking that I understand both addiction and narcissism. I was sitting right next to a doctor while I was giving all my advice (which I had absolutely no credentials to give) and some of his wisdom has stuck with me. Leading me to conclude that Mr. Sheen has experienced a psychotic break. So I’m refraining from all things Charlieville because I’m trying very hard not to stare or follow or further the drama because I believe he needs medical attention.

But he is not the only one at risk. Although I was relieved to see that one of the mothers of his children stepped in to (at least momentarily) remove his kids from the circus we’re all enjoying, two other children have been left to fend for themselves at Carlos Estevez’s house.

Can no one save The Goddesses? Charlie openly talks about his two live-in girlfriends, which by number alone – momentarily ignoring the age and economic differences between he and they – show that an intimate, healthy relationship is not Charlie’s end goal. These two very young and very blonde women are living in a house with a man who has a mile-long history of domestic violence.

It was over 20 years ago that Sheen “accidentally” shot actress Kelly Preston—his then fiancé, in their home. Which might have seemed more accidental had he not settled out of court with a UCLA student, just a few years later and a few months after he married Donna Peele, whom he “allegedly” struck in the head when she refused to have sex with him. Not long after which, troll-finding Charlie was arrested for beating up his next girlfriend Brittany Ashland—giving her seven stitches in her lip—and “allegedly” made the same recurring threat to kill her, too. Which was followed up in court when his next wife Denise Richards filed for divorce and stated that he threw objects (like, chairs) at her and regularly threatened to kill her, as well. Which was trumped just last December when Charlie “allegedly” gave his then wife, Brooke Mueller, a Christmas morning knife to the throat and yet another, “alleged” threat to kill her. Most recently there was also The Plaza hotel incident where Capri Anderson had to lock herself in the bathroom after Sheen put his hands around her throat and threatened to murder her, too.

It seems the only thing Charlie is definitely not winning at are his attempts to kill women. Or at least those six that went to court or a hospital over it. Who knows if other women may have also been hurt but, perhaps, discouraged by the fact that Charlie has not served one minute of jail time for any of these altercations – did not go to the law for help.

When Charlie Sheen’s abuse of women can be forgiven by most of society – yes that means all of you millions of CBS fans who keep those ratings high no matter what Charlie does in his personal life – how long can we estimate the two “Goddesses” will be safe in his home? Two women who are also someone’s children – who are not rich or famous, making them an even easier target to hurt, terrorize or heaven forbid, “actually” kill this time.



  1. Nicole on Wednesday 30, 2011

    I have never seen not one episode of his show. Charlie is one Looney Tune.

  2. Nicole on Wednesday 30, 2011

    Charlie Sheen has over 3 million followers. Are they nuts to listen to his jibberish? What is wrong with the world?

  3. Scott Keller on Wednesday 30, 2011

    Exactly. Couldn’t have said it better myself.

  4. Diane Farr on Wednesday 30, 2011

    thanks Nicole and Scott. let’s spread it around. df

  5. Wolfie on Wednesday 30, 2011

    I don’t see what the attraction is – why are so many people so far up his rectum? He LOOKS like the life-style he’s been indulging in, and it’s NOT good.
    But I have to wonder: is someone going to have to actually DIE for him to be held accountable for his actions against women?

  6. Diane Farr on Wednesday 30, 2011

    i hope not, but i’m really feeling worried that is exactly what is going to have to happen. df

  7. Wolfie on Wednesday 30, 2011

    Me, too, as it appears no one is willing to set boundaries for him since he’s obviously incapable of setting them for himself. There seems to be some sort of weird mental illness at play in his head, but that’s no excuse for letting him continually abuse the women in his life.

  8. Dan Mackey on Wednesday 30, 2011

    I have never really watched the show more than once as I found it too crude for my taste. I agree with you. Accepting the abuse he is displaying because he gets ratings feeds my growing cynicism about the Entertainment enterprises in this country (sports included) that cover up and sweep away the dangerous behavior of people until finally someone dies tragically and then the world is shocked and bewildered at how it happened. I watch very little TV as it is. Numb3rs was one of the last series I watched because there was some intelligence and good relationships in amongst the procedural portions, not just ’cause you were on it but that didn’t hurt either.

    Dan

  9. Tara on Wednesday 30, 2011

    Your article is absolutely correct. God help those two women that he is currently involved with. I’ve never understood why any woman would get involved with him, he is nothing but a narcissistic jerk who clearly needs help. I feel sorry for his kids and someone out there needs to remove those two women from his home before he beats them and the story of his domestic violence arrest winds up on the news.

  10. Diane Farr on Wednesday 30, 2011

    I am with you Wolfie. It’s just scary that all of this is overlooked. i gotta say, if a rapper beat up (at least) six women it would be added into every story about him. But there is barely a comment for the abuse served by the rich white guy from the famous family?

  11. Diane Farr on Wednesday 30, 2011

    i’m with you Dan. thanks for the kudos

  12. Diane Farr on Wednesday 30, 2011

    Michael Vick was arrested and bankrupted and villainized for his behavior towards dogs within three years of playing pro bowl. Charlie shot another actress and was still forgiven, embraced in job after job and went on to beat five more – and still not a word on that. but calling a producer a name finally shook the system

  13. Brendan on Wednesday 30, 2011

    It is truly not funny, nor has it ever been. How many times are the press given a perfect opportunity to highlight important issues such as Bi-Polar, Drug Abuse, Domestic Violence (or on an unrelated note) Corruption, Corporate Fraud, etc.. and they go for the LCD. Where the hell is Oprah, or whomever. Is Anderson Cooper all we have?
    Keep up the good stuff, Diane
    Brendan
    NYC

  14. Nicole on Wednesday 30, 2011

    I read on your Facebook that your brother-in-law was at Charlie Sheen’s house. Are you kidding me?

  15. Ed harvey on Wednesday 30, 2011

    As a father of impressionable kids (one of them is a daughter) I am glad someone “Hollywood” spoke up! I teach my sons to respect their mom and sister and other females as EQUALS. And my wife and I teach our daughter to respect herself (and others of course). My kids have better values than this ALLEGED grown-up! I think Charlie needs help and fast! The rest of us have to take responsibility for our actions and so should he! He can’t blame it all on Hollywood or show biz or producers or parents. At some point in time we ALL make our own choices. I don’t see you acting like a Psycho! Take care and God Bless, Ed Harvey

  16. Diane Farr on Wednesday 30, 2011

    hollywood is here for you.

  17. Diane Farr on Wednesday 30, 2011

    like minded folks might want to check out Susan Moss on Huffington Post.

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/susan-moss/lessons-learned-from-char_b_833101.html

  18. Nicole on Wednesday 30, 2011

    Both Charlie Sheen and Mel Gibson are pathetic excuses of men. No respect for women.

  19. Steve on Wednesday 30, 2011

    Interesting, especially some of the comments….. I think I commented previously the bizarre pedestal society puts “celebrities” on.

    Its no surprise how many new followers Charlie has on Twitter….. we all like to see a good car crash (for various reasons)… think how many people slow down to gawp at a crash on the interstate.

    The attitude of violence in this country (regardless of whom it is aimed at) is a mystery to me, and after 20 years of visiting/living here it always will be. Remember this is a country where you can show someone being killed at breakfast time on TV, but you cant say cock….. ever !!

  20. James Chevalier on Wednesday 30, 2011

    I consider myself to be a gentle person to say the least, I walk away from confrontations, every chance I get, except when it comes to one of my fellow males laying their hands on a female. That is the easiest way for a person to get me to forget about being a gentle person and a good guy. I do not understand what my fellow males are thinking when they hit a female, or even show them disrespect. I used to watch 2.5 men, but have stopped watching it, thanks to a conversation I had on twitter, and reading this piece. The problem I have is when we put every athlete, actor, or male in general, in with those that have committed domestic violence, not all males have raised their hand to a female. I have been treated bad enough in the past, that others would think about it, but not once have I ever even thought of hitting a female. Whether I know you or not, violence against a female is not something I can just ignore and walk away from. There are a few good guys left in the world, but the problem is we are an after thought, and as the saying goes nice guys finish last, but I would rather be who I am and finish last, then be horses behind just to be except in bad boys club.

    I do have to wonder why females who know what the person has done in his past with the violence would put themselves in that spot to be his next victim.

    Thanks

  21. Diane Farr on Wednesday 30, 2011

    Steve, I think the reason whey Charlie’s show bombed in Detroit is because no one wants to look at a car wreck for 45 minutes. its loses the mystique by then and just feel sickening….

  22. Nicole on Wednesday 30, 2011

    Mel and Charlie should learn a lesson from Robert Downey, Jr. He was arrested for drug-related stuff and his career looked bleaked. Now, he’s sober and clean-free. Plus, he’s an awesome actor.

  23. Nicole on Wednesday 30, 2011

    This is why I love Betty White. On Lindsay Lohan and Charlie Sheen, she says: “I cannot stand the people who get wonderful starts in show business and who abuse it. Lindsay Lohan and Charlie Sheen for example.”

    But Betty didn’t stop there — claiming, “They party too much, don’t learn their lines, are unprofessional, and they grumble about everything. I think they are terribly ungrateful.”

    Yay, Betty! You go, girl! :D

  24. Elizabeth on Wednesday 30, 2011

    This is the sort of attention Charlie Sheen should be getting. He’s not a well man and he, and the people around him, needs help.

    Forget explaining Twitter, I really can’t wrap my head around the idea that his one man show sold out at Radio City. I have found no reasonable, non-sickening explanation for the people who follow him. And I honestly wasn’t even aware of exactly how long his history of abuse and violence against women is. I knew there was more than one case, but… Wow! Apparently it’s not as bad to attack women as it is to abuse dogs.

    He needs to be boycotted. I have watched his show, but not since I’ve learned about him. no one should.

    But Nicole is right about Betty. She rocks!